I read an article earlier this week, which informed me that
I was almost at the point where I would be considered “mid-career.” I quickly
dismissed this with disgust since for one, grad school was just yesterday, and
furthermore I still consider myself young, hip and fresh in the field. Who
wants to play pop up pirate with a “mid-career” therapist?
I thought about it for a bit, and decided it meant that
maybe, just possibly, I might be able to share a few choice words of wisdom
about what I’ve learnt along the way as I hit my 8th year (see not
that bad) of practice. I’ve spent all of those years building a private
practice. However in Barbados, where you’re one of four speech pathologists it
means that you’re also a school SLP, medical SLP, community SLP… and the list
goes on. Needless to say I’ve learnt a
few things in each area thus far. The key topic that pops up weekly in conversations
with colleagues and interns is “avoiding BURNOUT.” Yes that dreaded "B" word that can creep up on even the best of us.
Disclaimer: I in no way consider myself an expert in the
field. I still struggle with clients, still have mini panic attacks when I
think about scheduling and caseload management, still suffer from imposter
syndrome sometimes, still have to google SLP terminology or “phone a friend,”
still some days fantasize about marrying filthy rich and sailing away from
paperwork mountains on a massive yacht…but I digress. The important thing is
that I’m still here, and still loving what I do every step of the way.
What are my tips for waking up every most mornings
still excited to go to work?
Unleash your
creativity (or at least Pinterest’s creativity)
Sessions can get boring very quickly, not only for your
clients, but for you as well. I don’t know a single therapist who has said “I
can’t wait to use those same flashcards in therapy for the 10th
time!” Fortunately for our field the SLP world has taken over technology, and
the internet is filled with a plethora of blog posts, pinterest ideas, TPT
stores and other wonderful places, that place creative new ways to hit your
targets at your fingertips. Also remember you’re not limited to your therapy
room (I feel claustrophobic in clinic after a while). Take it outdoors, to the
playground, to the supermarket, even to the corridor or another room. A small
change of scenery goes a long way. Speaking of a change of scenery…..
Get Away
Yes I said step away from the laminator and book a trip
somewhere. It could be to a convention or continuing education course, where
you have the opportunity to network with likeminded professionals and come back
to work with fresh ideas and new skills to use with your clients. It could also
be just a quick trip somewhere to clear your head and regroup. I find that I
get the best ideas and make the clearest decisions for my practice when I’m as
far away as possible from said practice. Sometimes we get so bogged down and
caught up in everything that is happening with our caseload that we don’t have
time for brainstorming or problem solving, and we end up digging ourselves into
a burnout hole. Trust me…step away for a bit.
Delegate
I cannot tell you the last time I have filled out an
insurance form, written a receipt, or touched a laminator. These are all things
that had to be done on my own when I first started work. However, as soon as I
could find someone to delegate admin type work to, that was quickly passed off
so I could focus on doing therapy. I’m also working on passing on certain
clients and tasks to my newgrads, as soon as I decide that they are competent
enough to manage. I will admit that it
is extremely hard to do, especially if you’re used to managing everything, but
it definitely makes life easier. You do not have to oversee every visual
timetable printed!
Share your knowledge
I’ve been a clinical supervisor for just about four years
now, and though there are some interns who make me pull my hair out, having
them always makes me see my work from a fresh new perspective. Furthermore,
they usually come with the latest research and therapy ideas, and provide new
insight into what is current best practice in the academic world. I’ve also realized that every time I talk
about, and demonstrate how and why I do what I do I fall in love with the field
all over again. This also applies to teacher/parent/paraprofessional training. Sharing
your knowledge and skills allows for great moments of self-reflection, critical
thinking, and problem solving. Most importantly you are equipping new minds
with the tools needed to go out and make an even greater difference in the
world.
Jack of all trades,
master of burnout
This should be the title of my article. When I left grad
school I was so excited to learn everything about everything in the field. In
the first years I did Hanen, PROMPT, SOS Feeding, Auditory Verbal, AAC courses,
Dysphagia training, and the list goes on. My thinking was that I didn’t want
anyone to show up at my clinic, and I didn’t have the skills to help them.
Sounds heroic, but not at all practical. I felt like I was dying from
information overload, like I wasn’t particularly good at anything, and I
started to feel unfulfilled in the field. After a few years (maybe about 6….it
was tough) I decided to focus on key areas which I was passionate about and be
amazing(ish) at those. The main ones for me have been Autism and Augmentative
and Alternative Communication (AAC), which both tie in quite closely. I’ve also
been more interested in feeding, but I haven’t delved into it fully. I’m not
going to say I don’t do the odd modified barium swallow when needed, or work with
a speech sound disorder. However they’re not my primary areas of focus, and I’m
hoping that soon I can delegate those too.
Ask for Help
When I first moved home after grad school I found out what
it was like to work in a country with very few therapists, and limited
resources. To say it was tough would be an understatement. Remember this was
before pinterest and TPT days! I reached out and started doing lots of
networking via twitter, where I learnt 100 times more than what I learnt in
grad school and picked up quite a few mentors along the way (Mentors are
absolutely essential to your practice). It makes no sense (nor is it ethical)
fumbling around in the dark and not seeking best practice for your clients.
Reach out to the #slpeeps on twitter, the many facebook groups now available
for various clinical populations, or the ASHA Special Interest Groups, and ask
for whatever support you need. It also doesn’t hurt to email an old lecturer,
or someone who did a presentation at a conference/webinar you attended. Trust
me it works.
Take off that cape
sometimes
Yes I mean you superwoman(man)! I see you balancing that
million client caseload, making sure everyone has their visuals, that IEPs and progress reports are submitted;
trying to figure out how you’re going to stop in before gym to make sure those
parents are really doing family meals for dinner, and sneak out before you have
to give advice again on how to get the older brother to do his homework. I know
you’re putting your phone on bluetooth on the way to pick up groceries, so you
can explain the results of last week’s evaluation, and yes of course you’ll
give a talk this weekend at his preschool’s PTA meeting….but wait did you even
eat lunch today??
After a few more of those panic attacks I mentioned, I had a
conversation with myself one day and said “You cannot be everything to
everyone!” It’s impossible, and as much as we want to do everything in our
power to help our clients, we have to be something for ourselves….Even if that
means saying no sometimes. This does not make you any less of a therapist or
any less of a person. It shows that you know your limits, and value your sanity. This is still a work in progress for me, but
trust me I’ve gotten so much better at saying “no” in so many ways, I’m no
longer feeling like the most overworked person in the world and my life has
been a better place because of it.
I hope these words of wisdom from an “almost mid career
therapist” will help to make some impact on your practice. One more quick tip to leave you with....
Never, ever forget to have fun; when it stops being fun it means we have to do something to find our magic again.
Feel free to share what works for you as well.
Never, ever forget to have fun; when it stops being fun it means we have to do something to find our magic again.
Feel free to share what works for you as well.